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Frequently asked questions

Get answers to the most common questions about our coaching programs and how we can help you transform your dating life.

What makes the dating gym different?

Unlike most dating coaches who focus on pickup lines or manipulation tactics, The Dating Gym takes a holistic approach. We focus on building genuine confidence, authentic communication skills, and practical strategies that work in real-world situations. Our structured program is like a gym for your dating skills - with regular practice, expert guidance, and measurable results.

How long will it take to see results?

Most of our clients see noticeable improvements within the first 2-4 weeks of consistent practice. This typically includes increased confidence in social situations, better conversation skills, and more success in getting phone numbers or dates. That's why we offer our 30-day guarantee - if you put in the work and don't approach a woman in the first 30 days we'll give you your money back. 

Now, to see lasting results expect it to take 3-6 months. However very much depends on how often you attend glass and how much work you put in.

Do I need to be naturally charismatic or good looking to do well?

Absolutely not. Our program is designed to work for men of all personality types and appearance levels. Dating success is primarily about developing the right skills and mindset, not about looking like a model or having a specific type of personality. We've helped introverts, extroverts, and everyone in between achieve success in their dating lives.

How do the classes work?

Classes are held on Thursday and Friday evenings. Book a class in your dashboard after purchasing. At the classes we'll to a series of exercises to help you improve your social skills. This can range from roleplaying approaching women to speed association drills to improve your witt and humor. 

What is and isn't included in the membership

Your membership includes access to all weekend coaching sessions, our complete curriculum of dating skills training, personalized feedback on your approaches and text conversations, access to our community of like-minded men, and daily dating exercises delivered to your email. As well as a massive amount of resources like date ideas and openers lists.

What isn't included are profile photos, dating app feedback, sex training, and dating simulators. Those are all additional add-ons.

How does the 30 day money back guarantee work?

Our guarantee is simple: if you actively participate in our program for 30 days and don't get at least one phone number or Instagram from someone you're interested in, we'll refund your membership fee. Active participation means attending at least 6 classes and completing the assigned exercises. This guarantee reflects our confidence in our system and our commitment to your success. If you don't approach someone in the first 30days after having actively tried to, well refund you your money.

Meet JP, Your Instructor

JP has been studying and practicing dating and approaching for over 20 years. He was once very shy and had severe social anxiety. But through practice and willpower, he improved. He wanted to get better though and knew the only way to do that was with repetitions in a controlled environment, just like how he used to train for MMA or track. That's why he created The Dating Gym.

Before doing so, he ran a home organizing business, and writes a science fiction newsletter called "The Time Traveling Salesman."

He loves making and building things out of wood, metal, or on his 3D printer.

 

He also works out regularly and enjoys playing pickleball. He has two cats, Sherlock and Watson, which he takes on walks.

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